What Attracts a Man to a Woman
Over the last week I have met a lot of women yet I was very unmotivated to further pursue most of them. I realized that the biggest reason for this was the absence of attraction from my side. I did not feel that raw feeling a man feels when he is attracted to a woman. That raw feeling will usually motivate a lot of men to walk through fire in order to get that woman.
So I asked myself, “What am I attracted to most in a woman?” and “What attracts a man to a woman?” For me it was the following:
1. Physical Appearance
2. Uniqueness
3. Confidence
4. Sense of Humor
5. Positivity
6. Fun Loving energy and vibe 
7. Similarity in values and believes
8. Ambition
9. Independence
Sounds a lot like a woman’s list doesn’t it. Here is the thing though, you can not generalize and pin point all the things that will attract a man to a woman due to the vast differences of human individuality. However, there are overlapping attraction mechanisms that trigger men to feel attracted to women. These attraction mechanisms are as follows:
1. Physical Appearance. We all have different preferences for physical appearances and we are either attracted to a particular appearance or not. There are two factors that skew this fact. Firstly, the social standards of what is attractive physically plays a huge role in determining what is deemed physically attractive to men. Secondly, alcohol completely clouds a man’s judgment and he will deem attractive that which in a sober state he would not. Overall, physical appearance is the most important variable in determining whether or not a man will be attracted to a woman.
2. Uniqueness. We as human beings are evolutionary wired to feel attracted to someone who is different. This difference can be in form of physical appearance, personality traits, fashion sense and others. This attraction mechanism works very effectively for men. If a man deems a woman to be different (in a good way) from other women, he will feel attracted to her.
3. Personality Traits. These vary between men but for most part men are attracted to women who are funny, interesting, intelligent, positive, supportive, and have a high sex drive .
